Dear Massi, My husband is really difficult with food.  None of the food on his plate is allowed to touch each other.

All the food has to be in equal proportions to each other so each mouthful can be consistent.

He makes me wash my hands about five times before I cook for him.

Now he has decided he can no longer eat anything that is red just because he doesn't like the look of it. 

I really don't know what to do with him. I'm getting exhausted with all these crazy demands.

If I say anything to him he refuses to eat and sulks like a baby.  

I feel like a mum dealing with a fussy toddler.

Massi Says: It is extremely unfair that such demands are being placed on you. 

Your husband is entitled to having preferences to food, as unconventional  as they may seem to other people. 

However he is not entitled to you meeting these requirements.

Tell your husband how his expectations are making you feel and suggest that he help put his meals together in order to meet his demands.

If your husband refuses to eat, try not to succumb to his antics. Giving in to his ploys is only enabling his behaviour.

When he is hungry, he will eat.