Dear Massi, I got to know this woman at work. We have been talking for a few months.

We got on really well so I thought I would ask her out properly.
She turned me down really abruptly.

She said there was no point in starting anything as she could never marry me because I am too dark for her and she wants fair skinned children.

I can’t believe that’s the reason she turned me down, for such a superficial reason.

It’s kind of put me off dating now.

I’m not bothered about my skin colour, but are women really that fickle?

Massi says, Don’t let this episode leave you feeling dejected.

Rather, consider yourself fortunate that you were able to ascertain this woman’s true colours before you got involved in a relationship.

Her stance is not one that many women would echo, so don’t feel deterred from dating.

A strong relationship is not formed by an ideal skin colour or a certain type of physical beauty. Stay positive.