Dear Massi, I am a married man of three months. I had no girlfriend's before marriage so I don't really know much about women and am innocent in these matters.

I have saved myself for one special life partner.

But I am now feeling I have waited for so long for nothing and I am not happy.

My wife is a little moody, not very loving and my biggest problem is that she is hairier than me.

I don't know if this is normal or is she a rare case.

Can she have operation or take hormone tablets?

I asked her why she is so hairy and since then she has stopped physical relations with me.

Can you tell me if there is some way to fix her problem.

Massi says, Talking to a partner about a sensitive topic of this nature requires a lot of tact, empathy and kindness.

You say your wife is 'moody' and 'not very loving.' 

This is unsurprising considering your offensive and hurtful comments.

Before addressing your wife's grooming regime, perhaps you need to address the manner in which you are talking to your wife first.

Women having hair on their body is perfectly normal and certainly does not require an operation.

Whilst you can suggest something kindly, it is up to your wife if she wishes to wax or shave her hair. 

In the meantime I suggest you change your perception that you have 'waited so long for nothing.'

Hair on ones body does not define their personality and does not affect ones compatibility with their spouse.