Dear Massi, I made dinner for my husband and he threw it against the wall saying it was rubbish.

It is not the first time he has done this. Once he went outside in the backyard and poured all the curry into the drain.

Another time he went to eat at his mums for a week after I put too much salt in the curry.

I know you might not this is big problem but I cry for hours after he does such things.

Anonymous Massi says, You have nothing to be ashamed of as you have done nothing wrong.

He should be glad you cook for him the ungrateful so and so! Next time he does this don't cook or him at all and if he wants to eat at his mums let him.

After a couple of weeks he'll realise he is over-reacting and come home. I know it can be upsetting but you need to be more assertive and if he still isn't happy tell him to cook it himself.

He is simply trying to assert his control and power over you. It seems your husband has some serious anger issues that need to be tackled.