Dear Massi,  My husband keeps looking at other women when we are together.

He makes a point of looking at women and then he likes to make comments stating that they should not be dressed like that.

I have told him not to look but he says they walk in front of him and it is ‘unavoidable.’

He also says they are looking at him and I should be lucky to have him as all these other women want him.

It is upsetting me a lot and I hate going anywhere with him.

Massi says, Your husband may well try to justify why he is looking at other women in this way, but tell your husband clearly that his actions are upsetting you and this is no way to behave.

Ask him how he would feel if you spoke about other men in this way and claimed they were all looking at you too?

Explain to him that his words are hurtful. He needs to know that behaving like that is not correct.