Dear Massi, My brother has been really depressed since a woman rejected him.

We went to her house to do a formal rishta, but afterwards she sent a message through her parents saying she doesn't want to marry my brother because his beard is too short.

It was alright for her to be sat there in a face full of makeup and wearing perfume.

She has all these selfies on Instagram showing off her 'ootd' pouting at the camera but my brother's beard is the issue.

I'm so angry at her hypocrisy and I hate seeing my brother like this.

I really want to confront her but my mum said I should leave it otherwise I will make the family look bad.

What do you think?

Massi says, As protective as you feel about your brother, pursuing the matter will not change the end conclusion.

It is understandable that your brother feels dejected.

However hypocritical you deem this woman's stance to be, your mother's advice is apt and it would better to leave the matter to rest now.

Try and distract your brother with outings or social activities to keep his mind off recent events.

Encourage him to stay positive to help him move on from this woman.