Dear Massi, My husband has always been experimental in bed.

I'm usually up for it.

But this time he said he wants to lick chutney off my body.

I can't bring myself round to doing it. I hate the smell of it.

He says I should at least give it a go. I really don't want to do it though.

Please help Massi Says: Everyone has their own sexual preferences.

You say you have enjoyed your husband's desires to date.

However, if you are adamant that this is something you do not wish to try, tell him that you are not comfortable.

To achieve a fulfilling sex life, you must be in the right frame of mind.