I can already see many Asian women sighing…but there are a huge number of you likely to agree with these sentiments.

I have tried over the years like many Asian men tried to play the peace-maker but Asian women in particular have cultural habits which sees them starting and then fanning the flames of arguments for no reasons whatsoever.

We Asian men have been painted as wife-beaters, sexual groomers, extremists and anything else under the Sun and in the Sun. Presently, your average Asian man is the lowest of the low and is fast becoming extinct. In recent times I would say dogs are likely to fairer hearing than your average Asian man.

Whilst this onslaught against the Asian man continues we are now get blamed for almost anything that goes on in our families and in our households. The fact is we are not to blame. Well, not entirely anyway.

Think about any argument that takes place in your average Asian household and it is likely to have started by two women.

And it was the same in our parent’s generation. I recollect there being countless situations where the grandma or mother would begin pointless arguments over food, clothes, money and weddings.

The modern Asian women may well think of herself as a little more liberal in her thinking but she is exactly the same as the women who came before.

I hate how when I speak to some Asian women they claim to be liberal in their thoughts and forward thinking. They are no different.

They have the same cultural hang-ups but now they dress it up in ‘modern Asian women’ lingo.

They criticise those women from back home but behave worse than anyone from back home ever would.

I actually have a whole lot of sympathy for women and men from back home. They have a lot more honour and loyalty than the specimens on show here.

I hate how some women pretend to rise above such petty arguments and are just as bad.

We Asian men are being taken for a ride. I have friends who think they are in control of their households but in essence they are being controlled subliminally.

Regardless of if they have ever visited Indian, Pakistan or Bangladesh the Asian woman is likely to have the very same traits of the very woman she despises.

What sets Asian woman apart are our wider families. We have a huge wider family set-up which requires us to mix with members of our immediate family and cousins and friends.

This, we cannot escape from unless we decide to move to another part of the country and even then video calling and social media means we are in constant touch with people we may not entirely like.

You are unlikely to see Asian man getting involved in petty squabbles. If we do there are normally end in violence.

Women meanwhile will begin petty arguments within their households and many men are likely ‘go with the flow’. They do not have a choice and would rather just sit back and watch these arguments run their course than do anything about it.

That’s why I always feel sorry when I see a Muslim convert marry into an Asian household. For the first few months they are shocked at the constant bickering and backbiting that takes place.

I find it distasteful how the seemingly religious ones amongst us are keen to boast about everyone is equal before the almighty but will then spend days bitching about what someone else.

I know whole families that have been brought to their knees because two Asian women couldn’t get along.

I know some might say I am generalising and have had bad experiences. I am not generalising and it is probably why you find many Asian men wanting to marry outside their families and culture now.

I don’t blame them.