Dear Massi, I need advice, but please don’t tell me I am being picky or fussy because I get enough of that from my mum.
My parents have introduced me to a woman who they think is perfect.
She is great in every way, but I have a problem with the fact that her hands are bigger than mine. I know in the grand scheme of things I shouldn’t care.
But honestly, I would feel emasculated if my hands were smaller than my wife’s.
What shall I do?
Massi says, We all are entitled to our preferences when considering a life partner.
It seems though that you have not given yourself a chance to get to know this woman properly.
Someone’s personality is far more important than a physical trait. Why not talk to this woman so you can find out if there is anything compatible between you before making a decision.
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