Dear Massi, I went out with this girl I met at a recent event.

We only exchanged a few Snapchat messages before we met up.

She’s really hot with a killer body so I was looking forward to meeting her alone.

I took her out for dinner, but before we had been given the dessert menu, she had already planned who was making our wedding cake and what theme suits us as a bride and groom.

I just wanted to have a good time with a good looking girl, but she was coming on really strong with all this marriage talk.

Since the date, she has sent me messages asking when our families are going to meet and has told me what kind of ring she wants for the engagement.
I want to see her again because I’ve never dated anyone as beautiful as her, but how do I tell her I’m not marrying her.

Massi says, Honesty really is the best policy. You and this woman are clearly on different wavelengths.

Both your intentions to meet again are very different to each other.

This woman has been open with you about how she sees your relationship developing.

You, however, have not been transparent and have confessed to only wanting to meet her because you find her attractive.

Tell her without doubt that you are not looking for a serious relationship so she can then decide if she wishes to continue meeting you.

It would be unfair and wrong to continue seeing her under false pretences.