Dear Massi, I met a man and we get on really well.

He is married though, although his wife moved out a year ago and they are no longer in touch. He doesn’t even see his child anymore.

Should I feel guilty that he is still married?

Massi says, If this man is someone you would like to pursue a future with, it would be better to ask him to cut ties clearly with his wife.

Ask him why he has not yet initiated a divorce if he no longer wishes to have a relationship with his wife or child.

It is important for you to have transparency so that there are no discrepancies or misunderstandings at a later stage.