Dear Massi, I don’t know what to do about my husband. He’s so vain.

He wears shirts that are a size too small for him. He’s 47 and looks ridiculous. 

When we’re out, he stops and admires his stomach in shop windows.

He is actually quite chubby but he sees himself as being really ripped.

He spent 41 minutes taking a selfie of his upper body and then he posted it on Facebook. 

Honestly it’s becoming really embarrassing. I don’t know what to do.

Massi Says, It seems you are being rather judgmental towards your husband.

It is up to him to wear the clothes of his own choice.

Rather than being so critical, why not be supportive.

If you show him some positive attention, he may be less likely to seek validation on social media.