Dear Massi, My husband is so lazy and does absolutely nothing with our children.

We have three children and he has never changed a nappy.

His excuse is that he provides the money and big house, so he should not be expected to babysit or feed them or put them to sleep.

I can handle looking after the kids, but out of principal I think he is being a complete caveman.

Can you suggest something?

Massi Says,  Even though you are the homemaker and your husband works full time, there is no excuse for not wanting to spend time with ones young children.

Talk to your husband  and tell him that by spending time with the children, whether it be changing nappies or playing games with them or during meal times, it will serve to strengthen his bond with his children.

Explain to your husband that it is important for you that the children are able to connect with their father.