Dear Massi, I am going to get married soon and we are planning the honeymoon.

I am angry because my mother-in-law suggested we go for umrah. I wanted to go to Los Angeles.

I know this sounds really superficial, but we can go Umrah anytime. 

A trip to Los Angeles is the only time I will look skinny enough to wear the kind of clothes I want to wear as I have lost loads of weight for the wedding.

My fiance says he wants to start the marriage in the right way. 

But I think you only ever have one honeymoon and it is unfair to force me to go somewhere religious for it.

This is causing loads of arguments which I don't know how to resolve.

Massi says, Any marriage entails compromise and understanding.

Talk to your fiance and try and reach a compromise.

Perhaps you can agree on one destination for the honeymoon and the other destination for your next holiday together.

Don't let this subject ruin this wonderful time in your life as you are planning your life together.