Dear Massi, I have really fallen for this guy. He makes me think everything is okay in life.

He appreciates me in every way, something that other guys don't often do.

We did kind of have a thing before but we didn't go ahead with it. Now that I want to he seems to ignore me.

I really want to tell him how I feel but I also just want to leave him to it because am scared of being rejected by him because I really want something to happen.

I am confused and stuck and don't know what to do. I have tried talking to him but it's hard to get him to listen to me.

Please help as I have no idea what to do at all!!!

Z.

Massi says, My only advice would be to talk to him because I would rather know now than spend years pining for some kind of unrealistic fantasy about what could have been.

If he cares for you but doesn't love you he will tell you in a way that will hurt but should not make you feel rejected.

If you find out he does love you then it will be the best decision you have ever made.

A lot of times guys don't have a clue how to tell someone they like them and so do nothing.

But remember, if you have had problems getting him to listen to you then the signs are not good. If this is the case it's better to know because then you can move on.

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