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He is the one who left her!
Dear Massi, My friend was going to get married but they called it off.
Now, through an introduction I met someone and our families have agreed to the marriage.
The problem is I have found out the man I am due to get engaged with is the man who left my friend!
My friend keeps asking who the mystery man is and I keep avoiding the answer.
What can I do?.
Massi says, It all depends how much you value your friendship.
To be truthful if this is a good friend then it may cause problems in the future. I suggest you tell your friend and also tell your family.
You don't say whether your man' knows that this other woman is your friend.
If your friend is willing to forgive this man and not make a big deal out of it then you have nothing to worry about. But if not then the choice is yours...
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CommentPosted by: Desi, Oswaldtwistle on 4:33pm Fri 11 Apr 08
Just go for it! If your friend values your friendship she should respect your decision.
Just go for it! If your friend values your friendship she should respect your decision.
Posted by: Dave Batista, Washington DC on 5:46pm Sat 12 Apr 08
Just make sure you don't branded as "egotistical" from your friend. Respect is everything.
Just make sure you don't branded as "egotistical" from your friend. Respect is everything.
Posted by: Wassup, Bolton on 2:30pm Fri 18 Apr 08
Why are you stressing for? Friends come and go, if anything you should annoy your friend by kissing your fiance in front of her and pinching his bum.
Why are you stressing for? Friends come and go, if anything you should annoy your friend by kissing your fiance in front of her and pinching his bum.
Posted by: Khan, Burnley on 4:59pm Tue 22 Apr 08
[quote][bold]Desi[/bold] wrote:
Just go for it! If your friend values your friendship she should respect your decision.[/quote] Woa, don't rush into anything. Discuss with friend, convince her that you did not have any designs on her man when your friend was interested in him. As Massi said, you have to speak with the guy to make sure that he isn't getting in with you to spite your friend. You need friends, especially to help you through any bad times. Don't do anything rash to lose her friendship. Maybe she knows something about him which you dont, maybe worth comparing notes before going ahead with the marriage. But if she is spiteful she may make up bad things to say about him. Tread carefully.
Desi wrote:
Just go for it! If your friend values your friendship she should respect your decision.
Woa, don't rush into anything. Discuss with friend, convince her that you did not have any designs on her man when your friend was interested in him. As Massi said, you have to speak with the guy to make sure that he isn't getting in with you to spite your friend. You need friends, especially to help you through any bad times. Don't do anything rash to lose her friendship. Maybe she knows something about him which you dont, maybe worth comparing notes before going ahead with the marriage. But if she is spiteful she may make up bad things to say about him. Tread carefully.
Posted by: saima on 6:10pm Thu 1 May 08
[quote][bold]Khan[/bold] wrote:
[quote][bold]Desi[/bold] wrote: Just go for it! If your friend values your friendship she should respect your decision.[/quote] Woa, don\'t rush into anything. Discuss with friend, convince her that you did not have any designs on her man when your friend was interested in him. As Massi said, you have to speak with the guy to make sure that he isn\'t getting in with you to spite your friend. You need friends, especially to help you through any bad times. Don\'t do anything rash to lose her friendship. Maybe she knows something about him which you dont, maybe worth comparing notes before going ahead with the marriage. But if she is spiteful she may make up bad things to say about him. Tread carefully.[/quote] But if she is spiteful she may make up bad things to say about him. Tread carefully...
this bit khan wrote...
i think she should first ask if theres any thing wrong with him...then say he is the guy you are marrying
Khan wrote:
Desi wrote: Just go for it! If your friend values your friendship she should respect your decision.
Woa, don\'t rush into anything. Discuss with friend, convince her that you did not have any designs on her man when your friend was interested in him. As Massi said, you have to speak with the guy to make sure that he isn\'t getting in with you to spite your friend. You need friends, especially to help you through any bad times. Don\'t do anything rash to lose her friendship. Maybe she knows something about him which you dont, maybe worth comparing notes before going ahead with the marriage. But if she is spiteful she may make up bad things to say about him. Tread carefully.
But if she is spiteful she may make up bad things to say about him. Tread carefully...
this bit khan wrote...
i think she should first ask if theres any thing wrong with him...then say he is the guy you are marrying
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