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He won't leave me alone
Dear Massi, I went out with this guy for a couple of weeks and now he won't leave me alone.
We never even had a relationship of any sort but he seems to be under the impression that I told him we would get married.
At first I thought he was just being childish and things would stop but things have got really bad over the Christmas period.
He's knocked on my door and introduced himself to my and mum. He pretended to be a friend of my brother's. He also went to the mosque and has started talking to my dad.He didn't say anything but he keeps texting and ringing and telling me that he knows these things about me and will not tell my dad next time he sees him.
I have tried speaking to his friends but they just laugh it off.
What can I do?
MASSI SAYS, He comes accross as being very immature and childish and should know better.
I suggest you talk to your parents and explain the situation, before it gets out of hand.
Also try talking to him and explaining if there was any future that he's just wrecked it all.
Tell him he needs to stop spreading malicious rumours, otherwise you will take it further and tell his family.
Once he knows you have told your family the situation I am sure he will stop bothering you.
If he still does not then you can tell the police. They do take the matter seriously.
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CommentPosted by: Chaz76, Manchester on 11:21am Mon 28 Jan 08
With all due respects Massi. I don't think the girl should tell her parents everything. Look her dad is a mosque regular. There's no way he'll face up to the fact that his daughter "goes out" with boys. He may try getting her married off quickly - possibly to someone she doesn't want. She should tell the family that she is being harassed by a boy and leave it at that. She should also be telling her parents what kind of boy she needs to be married to, so that they are activated. The sooner she is "fixed up" with someone of her choice the better it is for all.
With all due respects Massi. I don't think the girl should tell her parents everything. Look her dad is a mosque regular. There's no way he'll face up to the fact that his daughter "goes out" with boys. He may try getting her married off quickly - possibly to someone she doesn't want. She should tell the family that she is being harassed by a boy and leave it at that. She should also be telling her parents what kind of boy she needs to be married to, so that they are activated. The sooner she is "fixed up" with someone of her choice the better it is for all.
Posted by: saba, manchester on 11:47am Thu 31 Jan 08
Get a life u guys who think u can make comments about who has to keep who's legs shut. U guys are probably at it with anything u can get but ur always the first to talk when someone else has a problem.
Do u know if this girl has slept with this guy[We never even had a relationship of any sort ]quote[/quote] can u lot not read what she wrote. did she say she slept with him?
The guy is the one with the problem, but Oh no, never blame the guys... right arent i. i mean it mustve been the girls fault, hmmmm, obviously typical bad boy asian mentality... grow up
Get a life u guys who think u can make comments about who has to keep who's legs shut. U guys are probably at it with anything u can get but ur always the first to talk when someone else has a problem.
Do u know if this girl has slept with this guyquote can u lot not read what she wrote. did she say she slept with him?
The guy is the one with the problem, but Oh no, never blame the guys... right arent i. i mean it mustve been the girls fault, hmmmm, obviously typical bad boy asian mentality... grow up
Posted by: Badmashh, your house on 9:18pm Thu 6 Mar 08
[bold]Is this guy from Lancaster by any chance???[/bold]
Is this guy from Lancaster by any chance??? Posted by: mushtaqsaab, Shottingham on 2:39pm Fri 7 Mar 08
saba y u lie 4??? r u from old trafford? i think i know u hunny, but neways i think the guy is a birt crazy but if u saw him for a couple of weeks then there must have been some sort of relationship however can i have ur number???
saba y u lie 4??? r u from old trafford? i think i know u hunny, but neways i think the guy is a birt crazy but if u saw him for a couple of weeks then there must have been some sort of relationship however can i have ur number???
Posted by: saba, manchester on 4:04pm Mon 17 Mar 08
Mr Mustaqsaab.. u dont know me hunny. im not from old trafford for ur record. What am i lying about? the fact that u guys do whatever u want then point at us girls for going out with someone is hypocrisy.
Mr Mustaqsaab.. u dont know me hunny. im not from old trafford for ur record. What am i lying about? the fact that u guys do whatever u want then point at us girls for going out with someone is hypocrisy.
Posted by: raz on 2:06am Sat 29 Mar 08
both of u b quiet. girlz and boyz shouldnt hav ne relationships b4 marriage.!!!! problem solved
both of u b quiet. girlz and boyz shouldnt hav ne relationships b4 marriage.!!!! problem solved
Posted by: mushtaaqsab, shottingham on 1:13pm Wed 2 Apr 08
saba it aint hypocrisy,i agree wi was u sayin bt u cnt say all guys get in on wi netin.y u lie 4?
saba it aint hypocrisy,i agree wi was u sayin bt u cnt say all guys get in on wi netin.y u lie 4?
Posted by: sadia, blackburn on 10:50am Wed 9 Apr 08
Saba you are daft, who is even attacking girls right to have same priviledges as asian boys on this page? I cant see it and I am an asian girl too who believes in equality and have been out with many guys in the past and played around. So I am all for your arguement if you actually had a point -you are making an arguement out of nothing and it makes me mad when these good points are not used intelligently. Stop banging your head against a wall for no reason. Stop hating. I am all for intelligent debate but disagree with an arguement just for the sake of it even when nobody is even arguing or disagreeing with you on this page. Your over-zealous defending of a non existent arguement is annoying! I am not denying equality amongst ethnic sexes is a problem it just has not been mentioned in the comments thread.
Saba you are daft, who is even attacking girls right to have same priviledges as asian boys on this page? I cant see it and I am an asian girl too who believes in equality and have been out with many guys in the past and played around. So I am all for your arguement if you actually had a point -you are making an arguement out of nothing and it makes me mad when these good points are not used intelligently. Stop banging your head against a wall for no reason. Stop hating. I am all for intelligent debate but disagree with an arguement just for the sake of it even when nobody is even arguing or disagreeing with you on this page. Your over-zealous defending of a non existent arguement is annoying! I am not denying equality amongst ethnic sexes is a problem it just has not been mentioned in the comments thread.
Posted by: Jesse, The A-T-L on 3:40pm Sun 13 Apr 08
[quote][bold]raz[/bold] wrote:
both of u b quiet. girlz and boyz shouldnt hav ne relationships b4 marriage.!!!! problem solved[/quote] Well said raz. A question for the the girl itself: Do you give a crap about dad if the people within the mosque found out? Gives your dad and possibly your family a bad name.
raz wrote:
both of u b quiet. girlz and boyz shouldnt hav ne relationships b4 marriage.!!!! problem solved
Well said raz. A question for the the girl itself: Do you give a crap about dad if the people within the mosque found out? Gives your dad and possibly your family a bad name.
Posted by: biggy, b'burn on 7:18pm Tue 13 May 08
[quote][bold]sadia[/bold] wrote:
Saba you are daft, who is even attacking girls right to have same priviledges as asian boys on this page? I cant see it and I am an asian girl too who believes in equality and have been out with many guys in the past and played around. So I am all for your arguement if you actually had a point -you are making an arguement out of nothing and it makes me mad when these good points are not used intelligently. Stop banging your head against a wall for no reason. Stop hating. I am all for intelligent debate but disagree with an arguement just for the sake of it even when nobody is even arguing or disagreeing with you on this page. Your over-zealous defending of a non existent arguement is annoying! I am not denying equality amongst ethnic sexes is a problem it just has not been mentioned in the comments thread.[/quote] sadia u a slag !!
sadia wrote:
Saba you are daft, who is even attacking girls right to have same priviledges as asian boys on this page? I cant see it and I am an asian girl too who believes in equality and have been out with many guys in the past and played around. So I am all for your arguement if you actually had a point -you are making an arguement out of nothing and it makes me mad when these good points are not used intelligently. Stop banging your head against a wall for no reason. Stop hating. I am all for intelligent debate but disagree with an arguement just for the sake of it even when nobody is even arguing or disagreeing with you on this page. Your over-zealous defending of a non existent arguement is annoying! I am not denying equality amongst ethnic sexes is a problem it just has not been mentioned in the comments thread.
sadia u a slag !!
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