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She left me when I was a drug addict
Dear Massi, I was going out with this girl quite a long time ago.
I really liked her and she liked me. We were together for a while but she ended it because of me - I was stupid and immature. I used to talk nonsense and lie...truth is I was on drugs.
But I've since turned my life around. I've stopped taking drugs a long time ago.
Since I stopped I've matured and I've realised how stupid I was. These past few months it has hit me really hard and I just can't stop thinking of how stupid I really was.
So I want to tell her that I'm so sorry for being so disrespectful. What do I do?
She stopped talking after she broke up with me. What can I say to her?
Massi says, I am glad to hear you have turned your life around. It must have been very difficult for you to change your lifestyle.
But sometimes one has to live with ones mistakes. If she feels she cannot still trust you then it is her decision.
If you do manage to contact her - apologise and tell her how you feel. But don't expect her to come running back.
Then, I suggest you leave her alone. Either she comes back or she doesn't. But if you try to hound her and try to contact her over and over again after you have apologised then it is more than likely she will continue to ignore you.
People have many regrets in life but at least you are man enough and bold enough to admit yours.
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CommentPosted by: star, lesta on 2:45pm Tue 18 Dec 07
i think he should fight for herif he loves her show her how much she means to you. inshallah she will realise you've turned your life around for her.
i think he should fight for herif he loves her show her how much she means to you. inshallah she will realise you've turned your life around for her.
Posted by: Rabiah, Nelson on 3:37pm Tue 25 Dec 07
If u love her then u should let her know that n then leave her 2 decide.Atleast u knw u hav tried.Well done for getting of drugs. Take Care Cya
If u love her then u should let her know that n then leave her 2 decide.Atleast u knw u hav tried.Well done for getting of drugs. Take Care Cya
Posted by: John Bradshaw Layfield, New York City on 10:01pm Mon 21 Jan 08
The fact of that matter is pal, if you play with fire (in this case drugs), you get burned. It's simple as 123.
The fact of that matter is pal, if you play with fire (in this case drugs), you get burned. It's simple as 123.
Posted by: sobia, north west on 12:09pm Thu 31 Jan 08
My bf of 6 years uses coke and has been for about 2 years now. Its not frequent and it has hurt me alot but iv stuck with him to help him change his ways.
It hasnt helped and there have been times that i have left him. The best thing he did was sit and talk to me and brought everything out on the table about what he feels and what he wants from me to help him and i understood and now we're working towards better things.
The one thing i will tell u is get in contact with the girl and speak to her normally, without the intention of wanting her back and be open with her about what u went thru and that u dont wana put any pressure on her to do anything but u have changed ur life around now and if she wants u to be part of her life then u will make it work. She deserves the opportunity to think about things for herself. then give her space.
I can tell u love her and may be she left u so u would sort urself out. Just speak to her.
My bf of 6 years uses coke and has been for about 2 years now. Its not frequent and it has hurt me alot but iv stuck with him to help him change his ways.
It hasnt helped and there have been times that i have left him. The best thing he did was sit and talk to me and brought everything out on the table about what he feels and what he wants from me to help him and i understood and now we're working towards better things.
The one thing i will tell u is get in contact with the girl and speak to her normally, without the intention of wanting her back and be open with her about what u went thru and that u dont wana put any pressure on her to do anything but u have changed ur life around now and if she wants u to be part of her life then u will make it work. She deserves the opportunity to think about things for herself. then give her space.
I can tell u love her and may be she left u so u would sort urself out. Just speak to her.
Posted by: me, preston on 2:00pm Fri 1 Feb 08
hey
very sweetof u 2 change 4her but u tink its 2 little 2 l8? uv probaly dne enuf damage now let her be happy!isnt love bwt always makin sure ur love 1s r happy?n wat gaurantee can u gve dat u'll neva start usin again after u gt her bak?
neway best of luk n wish u al d happiness
hey
very sweetof u 2 change 4her but u tink its 2 little 2 l8? uv probaly dne enuf damage now let her be happy!isnt love bwt always makin sure ur love 1s r happy?n wat gaurantee can u gve dat u'll neva start usin again after u gt her bak?
neway best of luk n wish u al d happiness
Posted by: cute-k, bburn on 3:14pm Mon 31 Mar 08
hey well dun 4 gettin of drugs but lisen if ur gf really luvd u then she wud hav stuk by u but it lukz lyk she only thought it was a fling. if she really loved u then she wud hav stayed wiv u no matter what.
my advice for u is dat hold ur hed up high and luk for ur miss ryt. dont go running after dis gurl she is a waste of tym. 4get her. luk 4 sum1 ur happy wiv and hu i hapy wiv u luk 4 sum1 hu will stay wiv u **** rain or shine. 4get her she is a user. uve sorted ur lyf out so now liv it. i bet dat u can do way betta without her. good luk
hey well dun 4 gettin of drugs but lisen if ur gf really luvd u then she wud hav stuk by u but it lukz lyk she only thought it was a fling. if she really loved u then she wud hav stayed wiv u no matter what.
my advice for u is dat hold ur hed up high and luk for ur miss ryt. dont go running after dis gurl she is a waste of tym. 4get her. luk 4 sum1 ur happy wiv and hu i hapy wiv u luk 4 sum1 hu will stay wiv u **** rain or shine. 4get her she is a user. uve sorted ur lyf out so now liv it. i bet dat u can do way betta without her. good luk
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