My husband wants both of us (From Asian Image)

My husband wants both of us

4:30pm Wednesday 13th January 2010

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Dear Massi, I found out last year my husband was having an affair.

When I contacted the girl she said no she wansn’t. He left saying he has personal issues he had to sort out. Later he came back so I forgave him.

Then I found out he was married to her as well. I told him to leave. Now he wants to return saying he has strong feelings for me. But he will not leave his other wife because she can help his future.

The other girl has no idea he wants both of although she has been told too. But she loves him so she does not believe he could be so cruel.

My husband still wants to see me . I have children but I feel lost on what to do.

Massi says, It's not really clear why you would feel lost.

Even though you have forgiven him once, he has again betrayed you, left you, lied to you and has made no attempt to make things up to you.

How he would start to do this I have no idea, but while he refuses to even leave this other woman, the decision has been made for you.

Count yourself lucky that you are no longer the one who has to put up with his lies or with feeling second best or wondering where he is at night.

He can still be a good father to your children, but accept that he is not a very good husband and move on.

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