Is he the right one for me? (From Asian Image)

Is he the right one for me?

12:32pm Friday 13th November 2009

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Dear Massi, I've got a boyfriend and I've been with him for nearly 6 months now, he never rings me or comes down to see me as he wants to take things slow.

I know he's not cheating on me but sometimes I think he is. He's so loving and caring and he'll get me whatever I want but I'm too shy to ask him.

I still kind of love my ex him and he says he loves me. But he's always chatting to other girls.

There is this guy in my tutor group he’s good looking and I love him, I want to chat to him but I’m too shy. I’m happy with my boyfriend but I want to be more happier if that makes sense.

Massi Says, Well, deary I think first of all you seem to band the word ‘love’ about as if it grows on trees!.

How can you love your boyfriend and also your ex and ‘this guy who’s in your tutor group’?. That kind of confuses me. Before you try to find out what you want out of a relationship it might be good to find out what a relationship is.

I think you are simply a little confused about relationships and need to maybe take a break from them altogether. You are simply jumping from one thing to the next without realising who you exactly love.

If your boyfriend is right for you then you will realise it. But how can you truly love him if you are looking and hoping to see other males?

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