I got back with ex month after marriage (From Asian Image)

I got back with ex month after marriage

12:03pm Monday 12th October 2009

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Dear Massi, I am in my mid-thirties. I have successful career, no health or money worries three great kids and a wife I love.

My problem is prior to my marrying my wife I was in love with a girl for almost seven years. We met and fell in love becoming soul mates in the process.

By a twist of fate the relationship ended - there was a lot going on in her life with her family and we parted ways.

I married a girl through my family who I now love very much as the mother of my kids and my partner.

The problem is when I got married a month or so later I got back with the love of my life and continue to be with her to this day We both cant live without each other but I cant leave my family either.

I am stuck. My wife would never accept my girlfriend being my second wife though my girlfriend would be happy to.

Massi Says,You say you love your wife but then why did you begin an illicit relationship with your ex-girlfriend months after getting married?

It seems you want me to say love works in mysterious ways but you have lied to the mother of your children for many years.

It is all very well saying you can’t be without your ex but your priority should be your wife and kids. If you truly have any feelings for your wife then you must tell her.

I would also think your mistress may also simply be hiding her feelings from you and wants you to be truthful too.

Yes, I admit it is not an easy situation to be in. But you have kept this lie up for fo many years and I can sense it is tearing your soul apart. Maybe it is time to be honest for on good?

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