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Shy guy is in my thoughts


Dear Massi I have recently moved into a property with my sister.

A guy lives with his family two doors down. His runs about doing family/house chores whilst his fathers working.

He always looks from his bedroom window when I'm parking my car.

My sister noticed him doing it at first. And when my sisters not around, he hangs around for longer and keeps looking in my direction, like he wants to approach me and say something, but he's a shy guy.

He is older than me. He goes out of his way to walk past our house and draws attention i.e. loud music and so on.

However now the shoes on the other foot. Some days i don't see him at all and i feel upset that i've not seen him yet, like life's not worthwhile He's constantly on my mind. I'm losing sleep and i don't have much of an appetite anymore.

I want to talk to him but i am typical in my way and believe a guy should make the first move and on top of that I am shy too!

Massi Says, I’m not sure exactly what you can do apart from talk to him.

It is obvous he has some sort of feelings for you and you are developing feelings for him. If you would rather not talk to him because you are simply too shy then you can always ask someone else too.

It may be that he does not feel comfortable talking to you and is thinking you will turn his requests to talk to him down.

I think it quite sweet of him to be so shy and respectful of your feelings but things will remain the same unless one of you decides to talk to the other.


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DrAgony23, says...
12:41pm Tue 15 Sep 09

It's quiet a cute story that may or may not have any intent. Rather than letting yourself mentally think too much about him, just try to avoid the thought that he's looking through his window or any way he's getting your attention. This may come to your advantage as if he's wanting to make further signs, he would take further drastic measures to do so. I'm saying this because you are new to the street, you don't know what exactly he has felt for you as you have never spoken and nor do you know each other. If he does take further hints then atleast you'd realise he has strong feelings for you, and if not, you would really hurt yourself as you will build that mode of just not thinking he is watching you..

DrAgony23 (24/7 at your service lol)

nazma, BLACKBURN says...
4:11am Sat 10 Oct 09

Now i know its not funny but you got to laugh at this article.

SHY! i mean come on how old are you?, you haven't chat to the guy then you have feelings for some stranger thats been perving on ya from his bedroom window, what are you on girl! you need a reality check, now come on get over yourself, get over the guy thats been perving on you, the guy you never have chatted to and the guy you don't know, get a job, a life and darling you need to get out more,

peace out!

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