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My mistress is her sister


Dear Massi, I am deeply confused and frankly have got no idea what to do.

I am presently in prison and I have been away from my mistress and wife for some time now. My wife is currently brining up my children. My mistresss is absolutely crazy about me as I am about her but I am married.

I do not know how to let my mistress know that I cannot be with her. I want to marry her too.

I want to be with my mistress with the rest of my life. I can talk to her for hours on end and my wife just annoys me.

The other problem is my my mistress is my wife’s little sister. I have tried to hint that I would like two wives but she does not understand.

I have known my wife for ten years and got involved with her little sister about some years ago.

I feel under immense amount of presure and I feel like saying goodbye forever. Please could you print this letter in the paper and not on the internet as we get the Asian Image in prison but for obvious reasons we do not have access to the internet here.

You take care and keep up the good work.

F, Her Majesty’s Prison.

Massi Says, You are in a real dilemma, whether to continue to cheat on your wife with her little sister or whether to make two women very unhappy by being married to them both!

I have to say I find this more than mildly disturbing, especially as she is the mother of your two children and is waiting for you whilst you serve a prison sentence!

Have you thought of your wife’s reaction when she finds out that the woman you have been cheating on her with is none other than her own younger sister, she will be devastated.

The devastation will not end there, her sister may well end the relationship with you once she sees the damage it has caused and when her own family disown her for such a heinous act, that of cheating on her own sister with her own brother-in-law.

If you really want to be with your wife’s sister then you need to face up to a few truths which are that not only will you lose your wife but will also endanger the relationship you have with your children.

Your wife’s family will most certainly not have anything more to do with you or her sister and your own family will not accept her sister nor will they thank you for breaking up your own family unit.

It may be easier if you just end your relationship with your wife and start a relationship with your mistress as I cannot see your wife ever accepting a three way relationship between you, her and her little sister.

I would try not to think too much about this dilemma whilst you are in prison as you are not able to take any action and really you need to speak with your wife and her sister face to face and come to some decision.

Whatever your decision will be, the outcome will be unpleasant and people will end up getting hurt. Do not do anything stupid, life is not always fair and we do not get what we want but there are always things we can do that are the lesser of evils. Some people will be hurt by all this but this cannot be helped.

When you are released from prison have some honest conversations with the women in your life and take it from there.


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boltonGyalHaj, bolton says...
10:34pm Tue 25 Aug 09

blud if ur a muslim id jst let u nw dt u cnt marry 2 sisters at d same time as islam dnt allow u 2 do dt bt reading 2 massis advice is totally tru i mean if i ws evr told that my husband ws cheating behind ma bk wiv me little sistr i would honestly b devesatated.

Samiah, Nelson says...
1:04pm Wed 26 Aug 09

OH MY LORD!!!!! totally gobsmacked at that one!! gosh.. ur in a real mess!! think about it really careful... your ruining many lives here not just one so think about everyone not just what you want and what makes you happy!

Imy1, Bradford says...
11:00am Thu 27 Aug 09

Just a comment to boltonGyalHaj. Any chance you could rewrite what you wrote in legible english??? Either Im getting old or some people simply can't write english properly.

As for the original poster. What do you expect??? You are having an affair with your wifes sister and you want advice? Er, few raisons short of a fruitcake are you. A blind person could tell you the answer to your dillema. Stop sleeping with your wifes sister. Appreciate what your WIFE is doing for you and be a man and keep it in your pants!

I also like how he asked for Asian Image to print his letter in the paper and NOT the internet, and they post in on the internet :)


prezz, says...
9:57pm Mon 31 Aug 09

here here Imy1,a lesson for all the blokes out there KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS! as for the the guy who wrote the letter his wife deserves a better husband and sister both of them are doing the dirty on her and have no loyalties to her at all.They should just run off together when he gets out so his wife can get on with her life.

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