He just finished with me (From Asian Image)

He just finished with me

10:40am Wednesday 8th July 2009

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Dear Massi, I met this guy last year and we just started talking to each other and we became good friends.

One day he said to me he really liked me and wanted to take things further and I agreed. since then things got quite serious and it just turned to love, I could not live without him but I always gave him his space as he liked going out with friends or with his family and as much as I didn’t like him leaving me I just let it be because I just didn’t want to lose him.

Then things turned bad as my parents found out about him and said I was not allowed to talk to him but I fought for him and I never let him go as I just can’t live without him.

Then one day he just started to ignore me and I knew something was wrong and I found out that his parents found out about everything and they moved him away from me all the way to London which is four hours away from where I live, he told me that he couldn’t talk to me ever again but the last thing he said to me was that he loved me... but for his parents and families sake he has just left me.

I I respect them a lot and always have but we loved each other and now I don’t have him and I just can’t cope with anything I just miss him and don’t know what to do he just won’t talk to me Please help I don't know what to do...

A Massi says, It sounds like you really liked this guy and had planned on spending your life with him.

He was clearly faced with a major decision whether to be with you against the wishes of his parents or to make his parents happy by ending your relationship.

He made his decision and although this is very upsetting for you I would like to think that this was probably a hard decision for him as well.

It is never easy to go against your parents and it must have been a tough decision to take but in the long run it is better that you found out now that he was not willing to upset them rather than you waiting around for him to get his parents accept your relationship which might never have happened. I have no doubt that you miss him and that is perfectly normal, after all this is the man you were hoping to be with but do not think that this is all that life holds in store for you.

You will want answers and him not speaking to you is probably causing you grief but take this as a sign that the relationship is ended and move on with your life.

I know that this is easy for me to say but time is a great healer and some day he will realise that he made the ultimate sacrifice for his parents and that he lost our on a great relationship with a girl like you.

You will find love again; I am sure, just take some time out to rebuild your confidence and to mend your broken heart.

Spend time with friends and family who all love you and I am sure will be supportive at this difficult time. I wish you luck and hope that you get past this soon.

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