I'm with my ex again (From Asian Image)

I'm with my ex again

4:35pm Tuesday 24th March 2009

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Dear Massi,I have started going out with my ex again. He got married from abroad last year. But he doesn’t like his wife.

We started going out and now he says he is going to leave her and marry me.

At the moment he says there are things he needs to sort out. We see each other regularly and he tells me how he only got married because his mum wanted him too.

I know you are going to say what I am doing is wrong but he promises that he will leave his wife for me. But now is not the right time.

I think his wife suspects something now because someone keeps ringing my phone and hanging up.

Now, he is saying I have to wait a year until his wife gets her stay and then he will leave her and marry me.

I hate myself everyday for what I am doing but I love him and he loves me.

KL Dear Massi on FACEBOOK says, I'm sorry but if you split up with him once for whatever reason im sure it will happen again.

And if it was so he could go back home to get married then he didnt think it was worth fighting for then so why is he going to now??

He's already got married to another girl and if he couldnt stand up to his parents then i cant see him doing it now and ruining someone else's life.

I think you need to face facts and see that he's playing you along and getting what he wants in the process.

Why is he making you wait a YEAR!! a lot can happen in a year, your feelings could change, are you really prepared to be the 'other' women in a married mans life.

If he really loved you he would never have got married and if he was in such a position where he couldnt get out of it, he should have had the decency not to approach you again and get involved with you because it was already over between you two.

I know its probably going to be hard but you need to let this guy go, he aint worth it because at the end of the day its you thats going to lose out and get hurt and there's no point in ruining your life for a guy thats already married and cant be honest to himself, let alone his parents or his wife.

(Answer provided by Nagina a member of the Asian Image Facebook group)

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