She has lost all trust in me (From Asian Image)

She has lost all trust in me

10:24am Tuesday 10th March 2009

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Dear Massi, I really love this girl and we just broke up because I broke a promise of hers, which I really shouldn’t have done and really do regret.

I have tried for years to be with this girl and we finally got things sorted. Our main arguments have always been because of a third-party but together we have been okay and sorted things out between us before an argument ever started.

She says she still loves me but doesn't want to be with me because she has lost all trust in me. I have done everything possible to try and regain that trust, but all my attempts seem to be failing.

I really don't blame her for not accepting me back but she says that she's still deeply in love with me as I am with her.

I really love her and at this very moment of time need her back.

Massi Says, You don't say what this broken promise was, or who the third party is.

If you have cheated on this girl, you will have a hard time winning back her trust. If however the third party is a relative or friend who has made trouble, then will their influence continue or have you made a breakthrough?

That you cannot even admit what this mistake is in an anonymous letter, is a bad sign. In order to convince this girl, you will have be completely forthright and do some soul searching.

Were you going through a rough patch, was there some reason behind your bad judgement? Can you honestly say it will never happen again?

When you understand your reasons, explain in depth so she can make an informed decision. Above all, her happiness must be more important to you than yours, even if it means she does not take you back.

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