10:03am Wednesday 23rd April 2008
Dear Massi, I am 19-year-old girl and I am in a relationship with a slighty older guy from London.
I have been going out with this guy since 2005 and we both are deeply in love and have feelings for each other.
The thing is that he has told all his family about me and they are happy and I speak to them regularly. They are such a nice family but I don't know how to tell my family as I am scared I dont know how to face this situation up to them.?
So please can you help me S MASSI SAYS If your family is very traditional then I would ask his family to contact yours when you are ready for the next step, engagement or marriage.
If you have a good relationship with either of your parents I would approach them first so they can help you when the subject arises.
Alternatively there is nothing better than the help and support of a sibling, be it brother or sister.
Talk to them or a friend and enlist their help. This way you can bring the subject up with your family. Remember your family only want for you to be happy-so be patient with them.
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