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10:03am Wednesday 23rd April 2008
Dear Massi, I am 19-year-old girl and I am in a relationship with a slighty older guy from London.
I have been going out with this guy since 2005 and we both are deeply in love and have feelings for each other.
The thing is that he has told all his family about me and they are happy and I speak to them regularly. They are such a nice family but I don't know how to tell my family as I am scared I dont know how to face this situation up to them.?
So please can you help me S MASSI SAYS If your family is very traditional then I would ask his family to contact yours when you are ready for the next step, engagement or marriage.
If you have a good relationship with either of your parents I would approach them first so they can help you when the subject arises.
Alternatively there is nothing better than the help and support of a sibling, be it brother or sister.
Talk to them or a friend and enlist their help. This way you can bring the subject up with your family. Remember your family only want for you to be happy-so be patient with them.
zarina, west yorkshire says...
11:37pm Mon 5 May 08
nadeem, lancashire says...
10:10pm Wed 7 May 08
19-year-old girl's DAD, London says...
4:30pm Wed 25 Jun 08
aliya p, manchester says...
2:11pm Sun 6 Jul 08
Nads, Luton says...
9:17pm Thu 14 Aug 08
19-year-old girl's DAD wrote:Nice, I read this and laughed my head off. 19 year old you Kuti, you randi. I will pucking keel this harami bouda you are sh#gging.
POODINI! think we no find out, well you bastara know i get you, you go pakishtan and marry your cousin, he good boy, not like london boy. all will be ok
Noni, Dewsbury says...
4:02pm Tue 30 Sep 08
henna, West Mids says...
8:15pm Sun 7 Dec 08
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