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He won't leave me alone


Dear Massi, I went out with this guy for a couple of weeks and now he won't leave me alone.

We never even had a relationship of any sort but he seems to be under the impression that I told him we would get married.

At first I thought he was just being childish and things would stop but things have got really bad over the Christmas period.

He's knocked on my door and introduced himself to my and mum. He pretended to be a friend of my brother's. He also went to the mosque and has started talking to my dad.He didn't say anything but he keeps texting and ringing and telling me that he knows these things about me and will not tell my dad next time he sees him.

I have tried speaking to his friends but they just laugh it off.

What can I do?

MASSI SAYS, He comes accross as being very immature and childish and should know better.

I suggest you talk to your parents and explain the situation, before it gets out of hand.

Also try talking to him and explaining if there was any future that he's just wrecked it all.

Tell him he needs to stop spreading malicious rumours, otherwise you will take it further and tell his family.

Once he knows you have told your family the situation I am sure he will stop bothering you.

If he still does not then you can tell the police. They do take the matter seriously.



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