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She doesn't want to know me anymore

3:51pm Wednesday 16th January 2008

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Dear Massi, I have been seeing a lovely girl for around two years now. It started off like a dream and now the bubbles have kind of fizzled out since she enrolled at university.

It's been three months now and she hardly ever answers my calls or if she does, she'll tell me she's busy and say she'll ring later.

I have a strange feeling she has met another guy. The problem for me is I wanna know where I stand.

I don't wish to pressurise her and bombard her with questions as it might scare her and drive her even further away from me.

Massi says, The whole point of going to university is to meet new people and discover what you like and don't like.

She may have just discovered you are not right together or alternatively she may be stressed with Uni work so I suggest the first step is to talk to her.

You don't know that she is seeing someone else but I sense deep down you already know the truth even if she hasn't said it.

If she is seeing someone I would rather know and then you can think about moving on.

And if she doesn't want to talk then I think it might be time to move on. Maybe she just doesn't have the guts to tell you the truth or is unsure about your relationship.

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Moheed Mohammed, Bolton says...
8:58pm Thu 17 Jan 08

Does this girl go to Uclan by any chance.

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Chaz76, Manchester says...
5:30pm Mon 21 Jan 08

Is she resident at the uni? Pay her a surprise visit and see how she lives. You may get a surprise. If she isn't resident there, you can still hang out in communal areas, refectories and libraries and find her and see for yourself. This is the only way bar hiring a private investigator.

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Harry, Preston says...
7:14pm Fri 25 Jan 08

Take a hint guy, she's not into you. Get over it and move on. Stop wasting your time coz theres plenty more of them type of girls out there.

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sam, Manchester says...
12:16am Sun 27 Jan 08

oh boy, how cheesy are you, seriously get over it and move on its clear she has!!!

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BadPaki, London says...
8:59pm Tue 29 Jan 08

Oh Sam... It seems as if your one of these type woman..! Its honest blokes like these that end up getting the ****!

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me, preston says...
1:49pm Fri 1 Feb 08

Harry wer u fwm in preston?u sound like a ryt d###

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shakira, Blackburn says...
9:16pm Sat 1 Mar 08

4 defoo da gyalz foun sum1 else or she may b hav probz.....if she dnt get bak 2 yu den dat defo meenz dah she ain intrested sori 2 sai buh i shud knw cuz oviusly ama gyal soo yerr i fink she shud atleast jus tel yu dah shez nt intrstd so in a wai shez in da rong keepin a guy waitin buh den agen dahs a gyalz job...ama ryt?
ad like 2 think i am!

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BadassGuji, Preston says...
9:51pm Wed 5 Mar 08

You been played, in fact I think I have been with her myself, she's very good so I would pay her next time.

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Badmaaash, London says...
9:15pm Fri 28 Mar 08

Hey Badass Guji, You sure she was interested in you or the daal chawal? Or did u forget what ur sister looked like?

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saira, blackburn says...
10:32pm Mon 31 Mar 08

common guys theres no need for that kind of rubbish. i feel bad for you,sounds like youre too gud for her neway, i hope u find your answer and find sm1 whose worth your love.

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nadeem, lancashire says...
1:09pm Thu 8 May 08

looking at some of the comments, they some times amaze me but shock me most of the time. there's no emotions and feelings left in us, I thote education is suppose to make us more aware and sensible. people who write in with there problems, are the people who have been hurt, they write in with a hope that, there may be some clever person out there who might come up with an answer to their question but wot do we do? we take ****, its just a bit of fun for us, am sure there's lots of sites were we cud go and hav as much fun as we want and leave this site clean and use it for the purpose it is designed for and not abuse it. anyways as about my advice to the guy with the problem is, MOVE ON , don't let this girl take the ****, if you feel for her then u will get hurt a little but trust me its better then getting hurt every day and every minute, just think, its her bad luck that she can't have you. I'll tell you one thing, if u love some one the its impossible to live without being in touch with the person at atleast once in a day, it doesn't matter with wot and how busy u r. With all due respect to the gals, why r most of you gals like that? am not saying we're all nice guys, there are some who are **** taker but only a few but its opposite with gals, there's only a few who are geniune, why can't we all be honest and straight forward.

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Roxy, says...
12:35pm Mon 12 May 08

Just in response to Nadeem:
why are u tarring all girls with the same brush? i get the feeling u have been hurt, and maybe even lost hope to a certain extent but i just wanted to reassure you not all girls are that bad. honest! and for you to stereotype all girls on the few you have known who have made you think like you do is sad. with thoughts like that at the back of your mind you will start looking for the bad in people as opposed to the good. even little faults will seem big. thats not the way to live.
but i agree with your comments for the guy in the article he needs to move on.

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