She doesn't want to know me anymore (From Asian Image)

She doesn't want to know me anymore

3:51pm Wednesday 16th January 2008

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Dear Massi, I have been seeing a lovely girl for around two years now. It started off like a dream and now the bubbles have kind of fizzled out since she enrolled at university.

It's been three months now and she hardly ever answers my calls or if she does, she'll tell me she's busy and say she'll ring later.

I have a strange feeling she has met another guy. The problem for me is I wanna know where I stand.

I don't wish to pressurise her and bombard her with questions as it might scare her and drive her even further away from me.

Massi says, The whole point of going to university is to meet new people and discover what you like and don't like.

She may have just discovered you are not right together or alternatively she may be stressed with Uni work so I suggest the first step is to talk to her.

You don't know that she is seeing someone else but I sense deep down you already know the truth even if she hasn't said it.

If she is seeing someone I would rather know and then you can think about moving on.

And if she doesn't want to talk then I think it might be time to move on. Maybe she just doesn't have the guts to tell you the truth or is unsure about your relationship.

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