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Wife found saucy texts on my phone

5:19pm Friday 14th December 2007

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Dear Massi, My wife thinks I am having an affair because of some texts on my phone.

This girl started texting me from work and I texted her back. But it was all harmless fun. However whilst I was on the toilet the other woman texted me and called me 'sweetie pie' and 'baby' and my wife saw it.

She thinks I am seeing someone else. I have tried to explain to her but she doesn't understand. It is causing great problems between us.

Massi Says, You have got yourself into a little pickle haven't you.

I think you are just going to have to win your wife's trust back. Texts like that can be really dangerous and I don't blame her for being a little annoyed.

Maybe after a while she will come to her senses and realise no harm was done. And she luckily nipped things in the bud. But how would you feel if a man was calling your wife 'Sweetie'?

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Almas, says...
2:59am Mon 14 Apr 08

Well said; TRUST takes years to build and is destroyed in minutes ...... please never betray ANYONE'S trust.

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Massa, Massi House says...
8:15pm Wed 16 Apr 08

Listen saucy texts guy dont listen to massi, my advice is nowadays all phones have something called a phone lock, you put a code in and you lock it, read the mobile phone manual and get a phone lock on your phone, your bayree will never be able to access your phone again. its standard procedure nowadays. The problem at the moment is the **** has already hit the chadee! i cant help you on that one, good luck on winning you wife over. In future follow my tip.

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zarina, west yorkshire says...
11:53pm Mon 5 May 08

Icant reallyt help you but ask yourself this question what if she did the same would you be so forgiving

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Gujjar, Dinga Road says...
12:20pm Sun 1 Jun 08

i'd invest in a second phone/sim for your extra curricular activities. You can hide this from your wife so you would never get caught again. I hide mine in my turban and leave it on "buzz" so when I get a dodgy text my turban buzzes, I then slip away into the bathroom to reply. 02 have some good offers on at moment.

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