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I thought I had found perfect guy

10:41am Thursday 2nd July 2009

Dear Massi, I am 24 and my family and now thinking its about time I find a partner.

I got married but am in love with friend

2:45pm Wednesday 3rd June 2009

Dear Massi, I have been reading your column since my early teens and I never thought I would one day refer to you for some advice; especially to do with love!

I really want to talk to her

2:27pm Saturday 23rd May 2009

Dear Massi, I’m 23 and I started working part time in order to finance myself at university.

I think I made a big mistake

2:15pm Saturday 23rd May 2009

Dear Massi, I’ve been married for almost a year.

He left me to marry 'rich girl'

2:01pm Saturday 23rd May 2009

Dear Massi, I had a two and a half year relationship. We were deeply in love. Then mid-March he started acting distant towards me.

I'm in love with a married man

1:48pm Saturday 23rd May 2009

Dear Massi, I have a big probelm - I am deeply in love with a married man.

I can't trust my partner

8:38pm Sunday 19th April 2009

Dear Massi, I was born in Pakistan but came here a few years ago.

I'm in love with someone else now

8:36pm Sunday 19th April 2009

Dear Massi I am getting married soon but I am in love with someone else.

He can't tell parents about us

8:34pm Sunday 19th April 2009

Dear Massi, Me and my partner love each other very much but he is having trouble telling his parents about me.

I'm with my ex again

4:35pm Tuesday 24th March 2009

Dear Massi,I have started going out with my ex again. He got married from abroad last year. But he doesn’t like his wife.

Life is better over there

10:29am Tuesday 10th March 2009

Dear Massi, I have only been in the country for a year but during that time my husband has changed so much.

I don't think we can be together

10:23am Tuesday 10th March 2009

Dear Massi, I have met someone at work and she is a wonderful person. The problem is she is Muslim and I am Jewish.

His bed habits are a pain

10:21am Tuesday 10th March 2009

Dear Massi, I got married to my husband but I have started hating his bed habits.

She has lost all trust in me

10:24am Tuesday 10th March 2009

Dear Massi, I really love this girl and we just broke up because I broke a promise of hers, which I really shouldn’t have done and really do regret.

He thinks I am having an affair

10:28am Tuesday 10th March 2009

Dear Massi, My husband thinks I am having an affair when I am not.

Friend is love with me

2:03pm Tuesday 10th February 2009

Dear Massi, I found out that a friend of mine has been in love with me for a couple of years but he doesn't know I know.

Husband is tight-fisted

2:00pm Tuesday 10th February 2009

Dear Massi, My husband is using the credit crunch as an excuse to save money.

She won't keep her mouth shut

1:56pm Tuesday 10th February 2009

Dear Massi, I have been married for over two years now. My wife does not speak openly with me on small domestic issues which she feels is not correct in our home.

How can I talk to her?

10:02am Thursday 15th January 2009

DEAR MASSI, I work in a shopping centre and this girl comes in.

Internet pal is worrying me

10:01am Thursday 15th January 2009

Dear Massi, I met someone on the internet but I am worried about whether he is telling the truth.

I think I've married the wrong man

7:11pm Thursday 8th January 2009

Dear Massi, I've recently had my Nikah done. I thought he was the one; he's not the guy I thought he was.

Left alone by selfish man

4:40pm Friday 19th December 2008

Dear Massi, I have been with this guy for seven years.

My wife wants to send money abroad

4:30pm Tuesday 16th December 2008

Dear Massi, I have been married for four years now. I went to abroad and like some Pakistani's I married a close family member.

Parents lied to get me married

4:45pm Friday 12th December 2008

Dear Massi, I ran from home when I was 17 and ended up in a women’s refuge.

He says I am too fat

4:41pm Friday 12th December 2008

Dear Massi, My husband keeps saying I am fat and should lose some weight.

Friendship is falling apart

2:24pm Wednesday 26th November 2008

Dear Massi, I’m 20 years old I hope you can help me. I have a best friend and we have never had an arguement until now She would text me 2-3 times every week.

My wife can't cook

12:04pm Friday 14th November 2008

Dear Massi, I got married and then found out my wife can’t cook.

She takes off her scarf

12:05pm Friday 14th November 2008

Dear Massi, I have a friend who wears the hijab when she leaves home and then takes it off.

I got married but I can't leave my girlfriend

1:48pm Tuesday 21st October 2008

Dear Massi, I got married to someone from abroad this summer and am still seeing my girlfriend.

I ran away and got pregnant

11:11am Monday 20th October 2008

Dear Massi, I am 17 and I ran away from home. I had to stay in a foster home with loads of other people and got pregnant.


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