Dear Massi, I have a really annoying problem.

Ever since my brother got married and his wife moved in, I haven’t been able to enjoy one single dinner.

His wife has been cooking dinner every day. The food always looks good and smells tasty, but I always find her hair in the food.

I can’t eat it after seeing it in the curry. It even gets tangled up in the rice.

I don’t know why she doesn’t just tie her hair up when she cooks.
I almost threw up the first time it happened.

Shall I speak to her or tell my brother?

Massi says: This is a delicate issue. Your new sister-in-law is making an effort by cooking for her new family and you said yourself that her food smells appetising. 

She certainly is not consciously allowing her hair to fall into the food whilst cooking.

Perhaps talk to your sister-in-law directly and tell her that her cooking is delicious and you appreciate her efforts, but that her hair has been found in your food on numerous occasions.