I am in love with the wrong sister (From Asian Image)

I am in love with the wrong sister

12:00pm Sunday 20th November 2011 in Dear Massi

Dear Massi, I am in love with the wrong sister.

I had an introduction through the families with regards to a prospective marriage.

We went to the house and I met a girl. All the formalities were done but now I have found out they have done my ‘rishta’ with the sister of this girl.

I’ve explained this to my mum and dad and they say I agreed to everything.

The past week has been really stressful.

I have tried to tell them what I think and they just say it would very disrespectful of them to say anything.

What’s made it worse is my own sister has had her rishta done with the brother of these two girls. She is really happy.

My parents say everything will go wrong if this comes out.

I’m 22 and no-one is taking me seriously. It is one of those situations I can’t get out of now. What can I do?.

Massi Says, Stick to your guns and tell your family that they need to do something about this now or you will end the engagement yourself.

It is very wrong to marry someone whilst you are interested in someone else and this is a recipe for disaster.

I know the situation is made more complicated as your sister is engaged to this girl’s brother but if you go ahead with marrying this girl then you will have to see her everyday and will wonder about what could have been and this will most definitely affect your relationship with the sister that you marry.

We have the one life and need to do live it to the fullest. Do not marry someone you are not attracted to as it will only serve to make you and your wife unhappy. She deserves to be in a relationship with someone who is attracted to her and wants to be with her not her sister!

Be strong and stick to your guns! Good luck.