I am a heart broken girl (From Asian Image)

I am a heart broken girl

9:50am Friday 14th October 2011 in Dear Massi By Massi

Dear Massi, I fell in love with someone we had been together for seven years on and off.

I love him more than anything and he means the world to me we broke up two and a half years ago due to family differences.

We were very young when we were together but we never argued it was always amazing when I was with him.

I have not been able to get over him.

I have taken each day as it come. I have also tried to mingle but I end up comparing them to him so it never works out.

We ended things on a bad note he wanted to keep trying but I gave up, his parents were not treating him right and I could not see him go through all that pain just for me.

I still love him and I just wish I could move on, but the fact is I do not want anyone else but him and he knows this but has cut all ties with me as he finds it hard to just be friends because we both end up wanting more.

Every time I see him my heart goes crazy and my stomach turns and I just want to hug him.

I am sick of feeling like this as I know that we can not be together I have come to terms with that but I just cannot get him out of my mind. Please help me.

Massi Says, I am so sorry to hear about all your troubles.

What you must remember is that you took this decision for a reason and that was you didn’t want to make things more difficult for your boyfriend as it was becoming too hard for both of you.

If you have changed your mind about this then you need to make up your mind and have a serious conversation with your boyfriend and find out if he wants the same thing as you.

If you guys really love one another and want to be together then you may well have to go through some bad stuff but if it is too hard then you need to draw a line under this and call it a day.

Unfortunately relationships are rarely easy and straightforward and most need quite a lot of dedication and commitment.

Ask yourself how dedicated you are and how committed you feel.

If you feel you cannot live without him then you may well have to take a hard decision but whatever you choose to do all the very best.