Dear Massi, I met up with a guy I met online on a marriage website.

We have been exchanging photos and messages for over 6 months now so I felt it was the right time to arrange a meeting.

Everything was fine, except he was much darker than his pictures.

I asked him directly about it and he admitted he used filters to make his skin look lighter.

I don't mind him being dark, but I think it's really vain and misleading.

He has asked to meet up again but I am not sure whether to go.

Massi says, It is not uncommon for people to use filters and edit photos before posting them online.

Ask yourself if you enjoy this man's company.

If the use of filters is the only concern you have, then give this man another chance.

Get to know him a little better before you determine your compatibility.