Dear Massi, I have gotten myself into such a mess.  I thought I would be so happy with two wives but it has been nothing but a stressful nightmare.

I can't talk to any of my friends about this as they say it's all my own fault.

My two wives are always arguing with me because of what the other one wants.

I feel like I can't keep either woman happy.

My first wife likes me clean shaven but my second wife wants me to have a beard.

If I watch a series on Netflix with my first wife, the second one gets angry saying I should have watched it with her instead.

One likes me wearing jubbas, the other wants me to wear jeans. They are constantly making rude comments about each other to me.

I feel like I am going to explode.

I don't want to divorce either of them, but I can't seem to find a balance.

Can you help me with my dilemma?

Massi Says, You have created a problematic environment for yourself. 

Within such taut conditions it will be difficult to appease either woman who are both vying for your attention.

It is not the fault of either woman that they do not wish to share your loyalty.

If you are finding the demands of both your wives challenging to meet, it is time to talk to them both individually and articulate how the situation is affecting you.

Explain how you are experiencing stress and that without their support you are worried about finding some equilibrium in all your lives.