Dear Massi, I need advice from someone I don’t know.

I had a marriage that lasted six months. I had a horrible divorce. It got really petty.

They wanted me to pay them for half the cost of the wedding and mehndi and jewellery and the cost of feeding the guests that were living in their house.

Now my ex is getting re-married and out of spite her family posted the invitation to my parents.

I am really depressed and angry and don’t know what to do.

Massi says, It is very discourteous and ill mannered for your ex wife’s family to post her wedding card to you.

Understand that this action speaks volumes about her family’s characteristic.

Rise above this and do not allow them to gain pleasure from attempting to upset you.

You are divorced now and your ex-wife has moved on. Keep yourself occupied with friends.