Dear Massi, Basically I’ve seen this girl who had recently got offered a job where I work. I got introduced to her by a work colleague. I like her but not sure if she does.

I’ve been talking to her a bit every time whilst at work.

I am interested in getting to know her with a view to marriage and she is also looking for marriage.

I remember going to a marriage event and her friend who also works alongside her told her that I went and I saw her mate at the marriage event.

I thought what? If I know that girl I was talking too wasn’t interested do you really think I would have gone?

It’s not like I’m committed to her. 

Every time I’ve seen her I’ve always approached her but then decided not to the next time I see her and she’s been coming up to me.

I have given my number to her, but she said she would call back but not heard anything.

Maybe she had trust issues with me. She is just assuming I’m not serious but I’m getting the idea that she isn’t.

Or maybe she’s trying to test me I have no idea. 

Not meaning to be boastful but I think it’s hard to find someone especially if you’re a good looking guy. 

They always seem to get cold feet around me whilst these average looking guys and not so good looking guys are getting everything.

Maybe it’s a status thing as I don’t think  I have much to go by status wise.

Massi says, As sincere as your interest is, it appears that the woman in question is not returning your feelings.

You have made every effort on your part.

Rather than questioning her lack of interest, move on from this woman.

She has not been malicious or rude in her behaviour with you, so this should not affect your working relationship.

You have every opportunity to find someone who is compatible with you and who will be mutual in their affections.

Thinking you are too good-looking for her is clearly arrogant though.

Maybe you should change that part of your attitude towards women.