Dear Massi, I hate my sister-in-law. She said she is going to wear her wedding dress on my wedding day.

It’s the same colour, and her dress is heavier. 

She always wants to be centre of attention. 

I’m so upset I even thought of putting permanent marker on her top.
What can I do to stop her from ruining my wedding pictures?

Massi says, On the wedding day the focus is generally on the bride and not on her relatives clothes.

Rather than seeing it as competition, why not appreciate that your sister-in-law is making an effort for your big day.

Being vindictive and damaging someone else’s clothes just to make yourself look good is a destructive approach.

Think about how you would feel if someone did that to you.

Let this matter rest and focus on the important thing - your life with your future husband.