Dear Massi,  Me and my husband have spent Ramadan arguing and it's ruining the month for me.

It's the same thing every year. 

My husband fasts but doesn't pray. 

I feel like a fraud cooking him iftari every day when he's not taking part in Ramadan properly. It's like I'm encouraging him to be a bad Muslim. 

What can I say without it ending up in another argument?

Massi says: Fasting and praying is a very personal thing. Coercing somebody to do either against their will negates the intention. 

Rather than arguing and having a tense environment in your home, leave your husband to embrace Ramadan in a way that he sees fit.

Rather than being judgemental towards your husband, focus on how best you wish to avail of the month of Ramadan for yourself.